We are the people who find love in online applications and bodies. We are the people who believe that love will see the technological advancements. We are the generation that are in love with the idea of love, unaware of the fact, what true love is. We are the generation who have contributed greatly in making love all the more ambiguous.
But, why can’t we love? Why can’t we hold on to “the people”? Why can’t we communicate what floats in our heart but we fear to keep it out? Why can’t we love?
Why do we build walls around our hearts and give up so easily?
Do we really know what love is?
Love is not in posting loved up pictures on the internet. Love is not to show-off what you got. Love is not a lottery that you win out of nowhere. Love is not in gifting each other the most expensive things.
Love, is in little things. Love, is in not saying the three magical words every single day of your life. Love lives in small actions. Love lives when you ask her, if she reached home safely. Love flourishes when you make him feel special and cherished. Love is in writing love notes in an age that believes in “unsaving” texts. Love is not in permanency but in perseverance. Love is in believing.
Our generation can not love anymore because we like everything instant. Instant noodles also take some time to cook, that is what we tend to forget. Love is not instant noodles. Love is a plant that has to be grown with perseverance, belief and care. Our generation can not love anymore because we want everything without putting in efforts. Our generation can not love anymore because we don’t believe in magic anymore. More than loving someone else we have become crippled to such an extent that loving our own selves is the hardest thing to do. And before you confuse self-love, it is not being selfish in a way that you hurt someone. Self love is prioritising yourself in a hurricane events of life.
Why can’t we become more vocal about what we truly feel? Why can’t you go to the person right away whom you love (not particularly in a romantic way) rather than hiding behind the screens? Why can’t you put in a little thought?
Investing a little time in someone won’t get you profits or losses but something more important your most beautiful relationship. And not forgetting the value of not expecting. We as human beings differentiate from each other in a thousand different ways. The way someone reciprocates your love is not the same how you give love to that person.The unpredictability of life could take you from rigs to racks. The unpredictability of life could see you alive today and no more tomorrow. We all are here for a very short span of time and it is to the best, if we really could put forth, what love really is.
Let not the unpredictability of life take away the most beautiful and cherished emotion away from you, love.