“ਸੁੱਖ ਵੇਲ੍ਹੇ ਸ਼ੁਕਰਾਨਾ
ਦੁੱਖ ਵੇਲ੍ਹੇ ਅਰਦਾਸ “
(Be grateful when the times are good and pray to Him when times are hard and testing)
Did you breathe today? Did you wake up today (obviously you did)? Did you have a meal, and not just a single meal but maybe the two meals of the day, by the time you scroll down and read this? Did you get to see your loved ones around you today? Did you wear a clean set of clothes? Did you get to see and feel what’s going on around you? Did you get to speak up and express yourself?
If you got to execute, even a single activity out of all these that I mentioned, you did do something brilliant in your life. I know you don’t agree with me, but I promise, by the time you read this, you surely will. Let me tell you about a small encounter with my 10-year-old cousin. So, I witnessed my cousin making beds early in the morning after she got up. I kept on observing her for days and realized that there was a different zeal and enthusiasm while she cleared her bed. It seemed like it was the most important chores for her. One day, when she was late for school, I asked her to not make the bed and instead get ready. I still remember the look full of hatred I got from a 10-year-old child. And what she said, next, shook me completely.
“The reason I make my bed every day after I wake up is not because I am afraid of Mommy. I do that because even if by the end of the day, I completely mess up things I will be happy that I at least made my bed. I will have one thing to thank God for. A single opportunity to thank Him will be more than enough for me, that’s what Mommy says. And it will reassure me that I didn’t completely mess it up after all!”
I was stunned while she laughed and carried on making her bed.
I remember, as a child, seeing adults complaining about everything happening in their lives. All I used to hear was the hurls of not making enough money, or too much stress at workplace; too much stress in relationships; and the daily tensions and challenges that life threw at them. I do not remember many people thanking enough for making it to another day. I do not remember anyone thanking enough for the opportunities they got. And that was what I experienced as a child. As a 20-year-old today, I see all the age groups being thankless and ungrateful. And sadly, that’s not the worst part. The worst part lies in the fact that they are completely unapologetic about it. Right now, in this moment, just stop and take a look around you. Don’t you have so many things that you got to be grateful about?
You might own a car that you never wanted to buy. You keep on thinking about the car that was your dream car and keep on complaining. You keep on comparing and then regretting. Life is so short for regrets. A life full of regrets is worthless. So let’s do a practical comparison.
Your car- four wheels | Dream car- four wheels |
Your car- has sun roof | Dream car- has sun roof |
Your car- has safety measures | Dream car- Obviously has brilliant safety measures |
Your car- has a good music system | Dream car- Obviously wins it there too!
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So, now where does the entire problem lie? The problem lies in the fact that we are a spree of comparison on a daily basis that has made us so ungrateful, so thankless and so emotionless in the entire process. As a result, we end up being the kind of unapologetic human beings we are today. Sadly, but definitely, this was not what we were required to be. Whether it’s your car or the dream car, both of them solve the same issue. I know it’s really hard to believe and implement, but just try to believe in His plans. For one single time, sit down and thank Him for all that you have. You have so much, that so many out there do not have. You have so many things that so many people out there just dream of. You are privileged and blessed beyond the capabilities that you can even think of. So take a moment out of your busy lives and thank the power that guides your entire life. We have too less of time to stay here, let’s make the best of it.
Also I write this to YOU, to thank you for reading and believing in my words. As you read this, I complete my two years as a blogger and it has all been possible because of you, the readers who believe in what I write. The journey has been beautiful till date and there is lot more coming ahead. So just wanted to say, THANK YOU!
xG
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